Mar 17

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I have always said that people LOVE to learn but they HATE to be taught.   You would do well to remember that advice in all your communications with others.  Anytime you can get your point across using a story, anecdote or humorous event you will find that not only will your audience hang on your every word but they will LEARN at the same time.  

If you are in sales (and all of us are!), you can be taught that if you want to be successful you must first find out what is really important to your customer before you try to sell him your product.   That is great advice, but you could have learned it much more effectively if you were given the same advice wrapped up in a story.  Try this one on for size.

I first  read this story in Readers Digest about 30 years ago.  It took place during World War II around 1943. ( I verified it with my 88 year old Dad who was in the Army in Europe at the time.)   Uncle Sam, in an effort to raise more money for the war effort, started a war-bond program for the men in uniform.  The program was that all the soldiers, marines, airmen and sailors could buy war bonds.  The upside for the servicemen was that if they bought the war-bonds and were killed in action then the government would have to pay a $10,000 death benefit to the servicemen’s heirs back home.  Of course $10,000 was a lot of money in the early 40’s and was the big appeal and benefit of the program. 

The downside was that the war-bonds would cost the servicemen around $3.00 per month which was a hefty chunk of what the military men were making in 1943.  The bottom line was that the cost was too much and the servicemen weren’t buying the war-bonds because they were just too expensive.

The story goes on to tell of a young 2nd Lieutenant fresh out of West Point, standing on a stump, in front of his platoon in France.  He was trying to “Sell” them on the many reasons they should buy the war-bonds.  He talked passionately about why they should get involved, saying things like, “It’s the patriotic thing to do, it will help the war effort” and “The government needs the money.” All to no avail.  The men just stood there with blank faces and their arms folded. They were thinking, “It’s just too expensive.  I don’t care how many reasons you give me, I can’t afford them.”

A crusty old Sergeant standing off to the side said. “Sir, let me talk to the men.”  He got up on the stump and said in a loud voice, “Men, I have a statement to make and a question to ask.  The statement is this:  If you buy these war-bonds and are killed in action then Uncle Sam will have to write a check for $10,000 to your loved ones back home, Right?”  The men all answered, “Right.”   Now, on the other hand, if you don’t buy the war-bonds and are killed in action, then Uncle Sam doesn’t have to spend a dime, Right?” Again, the men responded, “Right”

“So, the question I have to ask is this:

“Who do you think they are going to send to the front-lines first to be killed? Those that are going to cost them $10,000 or those they get by with for free!?”

Needless to say, everyone bought the war-bonds!

You chuckle at the simple logic but you have to stand in awe of the message.  Rather than talk about features of the program, the Sergeant cut to the very basic premise of sales.

Sell your product based on what is important to your customer and not what is important to you.

The message to us is easier to understand because of the story.  The message is clear.  Be like that Sergeant.  Find out what is important to your customer and then share your product and service using a story.  Remember that your customer might just be that son you are trying to get to mow the lawn or to do their homework.  We are all in sales every day.  Be a sergeant and not a lieutenant!

Happy St. Patrick’s Day! Rick St. Patty's Day Sign 

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Mar 16

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I was letting the dog out this morning for his first “daily” and got to thinking what an easy life this mutt has. All he does is sleep, eat and eliminate. That’s it! To make it even worse, he was “fixed” years ago so he’s not even going to “get lucky” any time soon! What a life! It would be a pretty boring existence for you and me but ole Tom (his name) seems as happy as he can be. Why? There must be a lesson or two here for us two-legged animals.

We have too many desires!

We put too much pressure on ourselves trying to amass “things” to keep up with the neighbors and live up to the guidelines that “society” sets for us. We many times set our goals based on these false dogmas. Tom doesn’t do that. He doesn’t have a jealous bone in his body and he couldn’t care less if he is gaining weight or the dog across the street lives in a bigger house. Animals cannot select their goals. Their goals (self-preservation and procreation) are hard-wired in their brains. And their success mechanism is limited to these built-in goal images which we call “instincts.”

Man, on the other hand, has something animals haven’t - Creative Imagination. We can picture goals in our minds and also create them. That makes us not only creatures but also creators! We have the keys to our own happiness that we have total control over. We are the architects of our own success! We are what we think. Unfortunately, unlike Tom, we think about too many things. We overwhelm ourselves at times. Paralysis by analysis! We need to dial it back a little and simplify our aspirations a bit. We need to think good thoughts. Remember:

“If you always think what you’ve always thought…..you’ll always get what you’ve always got!”

Take a lesson from Tom and slow things down. Take a nap today.. have a great meal…wag your tail and don’t take life so doggone serious.

Have a great Sunday! Rick

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Mar 15

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Are you all aware that today, March 15th,  marked the worst day of Julius Caeser’s life?  Sure was!  Seems that he got himself carved up by a bunch of his enemies in the Roman Senate in 44 B.C.   William Shakespeare thought it was important enough an event to write a play about and teach us all about the term “The Ides of March.” 

It went down this way.  Caeser was an arrogant old fart and he apparently summoned the Senate to meet in the Theater of Pompey on the Ides of March.  A certain seer (soothsayer)warned Caesar that he had better have his head on a swivel that day and to be on his guard because a great peril on the 15th of March had his name written all over it.  Caesar apparently blew the fortune teller off and didn’t pay him much mind.   So when the big day had come and Caesar was strolling on his way to the senate, he saw the seer again and greeted him with a jest and said: “The Ides of March has come,” basically telling him, “Shows how much you know!”  The seer then answered him softly and said: “Yes, the Ides of March has come, but it has not passed.” 

Caesar soon learned that you don’t dis the seer because as the Senate convened, Caesar was attacked and stabbed to death by a group of senators who called themselves the liberatores  (”Liberators”).  They justified their action on the grounds that they committed tryrannicide and were preserving the Republic from Caesar’s alleged monarchical ambitions.  Call it anything you like….they killed him!  The term “Ides of March”  has since come to be used as a metaphor for impending doom.   Big deal, huh?  Well, if you like trivia…the ides of March was a also a red letter day for George McFly in the movie ”Back to the Future II.”  He was killed on the 15th of March, 1973!

So whether you are superstitious or not, at least today you learned a new expression or term you might not have known before.  If you want to be really enlightened you should also know that in the Roman calendar, the term ides was used for the 15th day of the months of March, May, July and October, and the 13th day of the other 8 months.  Don’t ask me why.  It was a long time ago and my day-timer only goes back a few years.

I think we should all pull together today and spit in the face of all the doom-sayers and let’s make this March 15, 2008 our best day so far this year!

Regards, Rick

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Mar 14

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Stop!  Don’t leave yet.  I am not done!

Stay and be enlightened some more! In the last few posts we have talked about communication and the affect that words, tonality and physiology have on the message we are trying to convey. Remember the breakdown?

Words 7%

Tonality 38%

Physiology 55%

To review, words are important but have the least affect on our ability to effectively communicate. Tonality, (how we say the words) is a much more powerful tool in our overall ability to interact with others effectively. But the real key in our communication with others is our physiology. That’s our body-language, our gestures, facial expressions etc.

Great actors and entertainers understand these ratios intuitively. I know that I can say the same words as Al Pacino but I can’t put the same tonality and physiology into those words that he can. That is why he is Al Pacino and I am writing this blog!

Physiology is so revealing that we have a hard time hiding our real emotions. A perceptive person well trained in body linguistics can easily discern what someone is feeling or thinking simply by observing them for a moment or two. However, you don’t have to be an expert to do the same thing.

For years salespeople have been taught to look for buying signals or “tells” of their customer. There are certain body language behaviors or signals that we all send unconsciously that betray us. If you are a man, the number one buying signal that we all share is to rest our chin between our thumb and forefinger like the statue, “The Thinker.” When a man does that it means he really likes what he is hearing or seeing. Salespeople are taught to look for this signal and go for the close when they see it. About 35 years ago, I was in a sales training class in San Diego and to prove this point our class took lunch one day at one of the new, topless, exotic dance clubs that were starting to spring up in the early 70’s. It was amazing! 95% of the men in the club were watching the stage with their chin resting in their hand! Guess they liked what they were seeing, huh! Of course, this was quite a while ago and those types of clubs were still a novelty.

Since Physiology is so strong and so revealing it can also get us in trouble. Picture this; a guy and his girlfriend are out at their favorite restaurant and the guy is making all his campaign promises to try to get her to marry him. His words are wonderful! Things like, “Baby, I love you so much,” and “When I am with you, nothing else matters,” and “Just say yes and make me the happiest and luckiest man in the world!”

Well, if words were all that counted our hero would have it made. Unfortunately, however, he was saying those words while looking at his watch and also checking out the waitresses butt as she walked by. His physiology was sending a much more powerful message to his soon to be ex-girlfriend. Anything similar ever happen to you? We would love to hear about it!

I guess the most important message from this is that if we really want to be great communicators and wonderful salespeople then we have to be CONGRUENT. What I mean by that is that our words, tonality and physiology all have to be sending the same message. My words can be fine but if I am sending a contradictory message with my tonality or body language my words will have no effect and communication fails. I can’t very well say to someone how excited I am if I am all hunched over with a frown on my face. Stand on any street corner and watch the body language of those that walk by. We can pretty well judge the mental state of those we see just by how they carry themselves. It’s hard to describe but we know it when we see it. Must be part of that deep core in our brain that is instinctive… like the lion can tell weakness or strength in their prey by their body posture and how they move.

Winston Churchill once said to a man in the House of Parliament, “Who you are Sir, speaks so loudly I can’t hear what you are saying!” Just another example of physiology in action.

Make it a great day, Rick

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Mar 13

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It was a lazy Saturday afternoon a few years ago.  I was laying on the couch watching a golf tournament when all of a sudden the door bell rang.  I shuffled to the door and was a bit upset to see that nobody was there….until I looked down and found that there was somebody there!  It was a little boy looking up at me.  He was maybe 4 or 5 years old and he was wearing an old, raggedy and ill-fitting little-league baseball uniform.   I immediately looked to the end of my walkway and saw a car.   There was an anxious looking man and woman inside who, I rightly determined, were the young man’s parents.  They had obviously shooed their son up the walkway to my front door and were waiting for him.  It  became crystal clear that I was about to be hearing a sales-pitch.

Believe me when I tell you that this little boy was about as cute as a young man could get and not be a girl.  He had one of those round pumpkin shaped faces that just lit up like a jack-0-lantern when he smiled.  And that smile never left his face!  He opened his excited presentation with the words, “Hi, Sir” and I have to tell you, from that moment on I never understood another word!  He was all over the place.  His words were unintelligible.  Every once in awhile I picked up “money” and “new uniforms”  and “donate” but beyond that he might as well have been speaking in Sanskrit.   Even so, he was having no trouble “communicating” with me and getting his message across.

It was his obvious passion.  You could just tell that he was so excited to be out trying to raise money to help his little league team.   He truly believed in what he was selling!  Having raised 4 sons of my own I could just picture him in his little bedroom last night practicing and rehearsing his sales presentation.  By the time he was finished with me I couldn’t wait to get my checkbook and help him out.  I was sold!! 

Obviously, what sold me was his enthusiasm and sincere energy.  Of course, the fact that he lived about 4 doors down and I knew his family didn’t hurt his chances either, but I digress.   The point I want to make here is to follow up on my post of yesterday. 

The little guy didn’t have the words but, so what!  He sure had the tonality and physiology!  That is where the communication occured.  Words make up only 7% of the effectiveness of communication.  Tonality, (how we say the words) is 38% and our physiology is 55%.

Professional selling is really nothing more than a transference of feeling.  And nothing transfers that feeling more than  tonality and physiology.  It’s that unexplainable “aura” around a person when they are truly excited about what they are trying to communicate.  Ask any parent if their infant child who hasn’t developed words yet has any trouble communicating what they want.  The baby’s body language and tonality (sometimes crying or screaming) definately gets their point across. 

Over the years I have seen many brand new salespeople who haven’t yet learned their sales presentations (words) do very well in their first couple of weeks because they are excited and enthusiastic about what they are doing and that excitement registers with their customers and sales are made.  It’s almost like the customer is thinking, “I don’t know what this guy is selling but I have to have some of it!”  Sadly, after the newness wears off and the excitement wanes, sales start to fall off also. 

I wish I had the formula for excitement and enthusiasm and could bottle it up and hand it out.  We all have had it at various times in our lives just like the little kid but for some reason we lose it along the way.  The folks that stand out and excel are the ones that are able to summon it up when they need it.  Take entertainers for example.  I saw the play “Fiddler on the Roof” many years ago and the program said these actors and actresses had performed the same show over 4,500 times!  How do they keep it fresh night after night after saying the same lines thousands of times over and over?  Simple.  They are able to treat every performance like it was Opening Night!  That is the sign of a true professional.  

We have to find out what motivates us….what melts our butter…..what blows our skirt up… what gets our juices going.  We need to charge into each day with the excitement and enthusiasm of that little kid.  My motivation was always my sons.  We all get lazy at times and I admit there were times that I didn’t want to make another prospecting call or talk to another customer but I would pull out a picture of the kids and say to myself, “If I take a shortcut.. who am I really hurting?”  That was my motivation.  We all have something that fires us up!  We just need to focus on it until we feel the energy.  I once read that the best way to make sure you always do your best is to imagine that the whole world were watching you.  Talk about an audience!

Maybe the best way to explain what a “real professional” attitude is would be to share with you a story of Joe Dimaggio the great Yankee outfielder and hall-of-famer.  Known as the Yankee Clipper (and for you non-baseball fans, he was also known as Mr. Coffee) he played 15 years and retired in 1951.   The story is told of  an event that occured in his final season.  It was late August and the Yankees were playing a Sunday double-header in Detroit.   It was late in the second game and Joe was at bat and hit a weak pop-up to the shortstop.  Instead of just stopping and returning to the dugout, he hustled all-out to first base like it was the 9th inning of the World Series.  When he got back to the dugout his teamates started ragging on him a little bit with comments like, “Lighten-up Joe, you’re a hall of famer, relax a little bit, you don’t have to prove anything.”  One of his teamates asked him, “Joe, why are you working so hard?”  His answer illustrates why he was one of the greatest of all time. 

“The reason I work so hard is that there may be someone in the stands today who has never seen me play!”

Wow!  Not hard to see why he excelled.  That was his motivation.  What is yours!  As you step onto the ballfield of life each day bring your enthusiasm, excitement and passion with you. 

 Make it a great day, Rick

PS.  I need your help!!  What can I do to make my blog better and what more can I do to advertise it?  I will cherish  your comments and/or advice.  Let me know.  Thanks for sharing some of your valuable time with me!  Rick

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